Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Monday, June 6, 2011
I love you because
* You still love me even how hard headed I am
* You love me beyond my imperfections
* You understand me even, It hurts you badly
* It's better to be you and me. You sacrifice your happiness for me
* Even How much I left you, I can never erase you it's like we are attached forever
* You love me beyond my imperfections
* You understand me even, It hurts you badly
* It's better to be you and me. You sacrifice your happiness for me
* Even How much I left you, I can never erase you it's like we are attached forever
Friday, February 25, 2011
JEALOUSY
- When You Spend more TIME with your FRIENDS * makaagwanta ka ug laag taman kadlaon kyg nila--- pero pag ako na TEXT RA GANI tulugan rako*
- When you never gave me flowers
- When you never text me
- When I see a guy who gives flowers to her girlfriend * makasuya because I wish you could that but dili man ka ingunana ( I just have to date a florist if i want to receive flowers) pero di ka florist. It's frustrating its okay ..
- When you never care about what i feel.and just focus on your self ( sometimes I think you dont need a girlfriend you better of to be single because you act as one. honestly)
*END*
- When you never gave me flowers
- When you never text me
- When I see a guy who gives flowers to her girlfriend * makasuya because I wish you could that but dili man ka ingunana ( I just have to date a florist if i want to receive flowers) pero di ka florist. It's frustrating its okay ..
- When you never care about what i feel.and just focus on your self ( sometimes I think you dont need a girlfriend you better of to be single because you act as one. honestly)
*END*
Thursday, January 27, 2011
LDR
Long Distance relationships are a true test to a couple\'s commitment and personal limits. LDRs take a great amount of effort to maintain and often people involved in them, realize that they evolve into a state of emotion that they never found themselves in before. When your partner is miles away from you, it is very easy to let things go wrong and lead your long distance romance to an early death. Some people find it difficult to bridge the distance through communication, others become overly obsessed with what their partner is doing when they are not there and as a result they spiral down a road of jealousy and suspicion. They key is balance and following some basic steps to keep your relationship healthy and strong.
Communicate and visit often
It cannot be stressed enough how important communication is for every relationship, especially if it is an LDR. With the distance working to keep you and your sweetie apart, your defense is keeping all lines of communication open. It doesn\'t matter how you do it as long as you do it. Every long distance couple should find ways to communicate that make both partners comfortable and happy. You can talk on the phone everyday, send e-mails, faxes or text messages and whatever you do make sure you share your feelings and expectations and be true to one another. Try to make the time to visit each other as often as possible or as often as your budget permits you to. A relationship cannot thrive if the only thing you have is the phone calls. You need to see each other up close and personal every chance you get. The key here is to set up some \"rules\" about frequency of communication and visits and stick to them, consistency can help a LDR survive. (Check our Communicate Better and Travel section)
Avoid jealousy and be trusting
One of the easiest ways to destroy a perfectly healthy relationship is to poison it with jealousy and drama. When you start a long distance relationship you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. It always helps if you go in a relationship with the idea that everyone is innocent and worth of trust until proven otherwise. Don\'t fall in the trap to interrogate your partner every time he/she decides to go out for a drink with people you haven\'t met or he/she didn\'t get back to you right away when you called and left a message. Just because you are in a LDR, you lives won\'t pause. Your partner will naturally have a social life where he/she lives and so should you. Sure it helps to have your eyes open and not be totally naive but being overly suspicious is unhealthy for you and your relationship too. You should both maintain your social activity and be happy with yourselves.
Be positive
Staying positive and not focusing on the negative aspects of a LDR is essential to keeping your relationship blooming and your partner content. Being away from your sweetie is not all bad news. Use the opportunity of personal time to pursue your interests and hobbies as well as your career objectives. Another positive points it that long distance dating pushes both of you to be more creative, communicate better since you don\'t have \"face-to-face\" time and test your feelings. As long as you see the long distance relationship as a temporary state, you will keep your chin up and transmit that feeling of security and happiness to your partner too.
Long distance dating is all about a balanced relationship between partners; a relationship built on strong foundations of trust, understanding and determination to make it work. The two partners should be reasonable about their expectations and willing to cooperate so that this relationship can lead to a happy ending. If these parameters are taken care of, you have nothing to worry about.
Communicate and visit often
It cannot be stressed enough how important communication is for every relationship, especially if it is an LDR. With the distance working to keep you and your sweetie apart, your defense is keeping all lines of communication open. It doesn\'t matter how you do it as long as you do it. Every long distance couple should find ways to communicate that make both partners comfortable and happy. You can talk on the phone everyday, send e-mails, faxes or text messages and whatever you do make sure you share your feelings and expectations and be true to one another. Try to make the time to visit each other as often as possible or as often as your budget permits you to. A relationship cannot thrive if the only thing you have is the phone calls. You need to see each other up close and personal every chance you get. The key here is to set up some \"rules\" about frequency of communication and visits and stick to them, consistency can help a LDR survive. (Check our Communicate Better and Travel section)
Avoid jealousy and be trusting
One of the easiest ways to destroy a perfectly healthy relationship is to poison it with jealousy and drama. When you start a long distance relationship you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. It always helps if you go in a relationship with the idea that everyone is innocent and worth of trust until proven otherwise. Don\'t fall in the trap to interrogate your partner every time he/she decides to go out for a drink with people you haven\'t met or he/she didn\'t get back to you right away when you called and left a message. Just because you are in a LDR, you lives won\'t pause. Your partner will naturally have a social life where he/she lives and so should you. Sure it helps to have your eyes open and not be totally naive but being overly suspicious is unhealthy for you and your relationship too. You should both maintain your social activity and be happy with yourselves.
Be positive
Staying positive and not focusing on the negative aspects of a LDR is essential to keeping your relationship blooming and your partner content. Being away from your sweetie is not all bad news. Use the opportunity of personal time to pursue your interests and hobbies as well as your career objectives. Another positive points it that long distance dating pushes both of you to be more creative, communicate better since you don\'t have \"face-to-face\" time and test your feelings. As long as you see the long distance relationship as a temporary state, you will keep your chin up and transmit that feeling of security and happiness to your partner too.
Long distance dating is all about a balanced relationship between partners; a relationship built on strong foundations of trust, understanding and determination to make it work. The two partners should be reasonable about their expectations and willing to cooperate so that this relationship can lead to a happy ending. If these parameters are taken care of, you have nothing to worry about.
What Do Guys Want
All guys are different of course and have their own unique wants and needs, but still they are similar. Some general rules I have found on what guys want in a girl:
1. Focus on your own happiness
Men are attracted to girls who are smiling and happy in their own lives. Women who are passionate about their hobbies and confident in their own skin allure men.
2. Be easygoing
Many girls put a lot of pressure on men, which scares them away. When a girl nags, the guys feel he is not good enough for her and he prefer to be with someone who loves him as he is. If a woman tells him he can´t go out with his mates, he feels trapped.
3. Watch the crying
Men freak out when we get emotional and hate hurting us. But when you cry yourself to a relationship, it has no stable ground. Make sure he is with you because he loves you, not because he feels sorry for you.
4. Approach the guys
Guys love it when girl approach them. It means they don´t have to put themselves out there and risk being rejected and heart broken. Flirt a little and then go away; they love the hunt.
5. Look your best
Appearance is very important to men. Do your best with what you have. Most guys seem to prefer "real" girls before supermodels, natural before super sexy. When looking for a girlfriend guys choose down to earth before plastic.
6. Drink with moderation
Most guys hate it when women are too drunk; they don't think it's classy at all. The same with smoking.
7. Stroll around on your own
Leave your friends for a while when you're out and about. Girls in groups are intimidating and guys want to approach in a safe place.
8. Be mysterious
Almost all guys like the thrill of the chase. Text and call with moderation. Show interest but don´t ask them to marry you on the first date...
1. Focus on your own happiness
Men are attracted to girls who are smiling and happy in their own lives. Women who are passionate about their hobbies and confident in their own skin allure men.
2. Be easygoing
Many girls put a lot of pressure on men, which scares them away. When a girl nags, the guys feel he is not good enough for her and he prefer to be with someone who loves him as he is. If a woman tells him he can´t go out with his mates, he feels trapped.
3. Watch the crying
Men freak out when we get emotional and hate hurting us. But when you cry yourself to a relationship, it has no stable ground. Make sure he is with you because he loves you, not because he feels sorry for you.
4. Approach the guys
Guys love it when girl approach them. It means they don´t have to put themselves out there and risk being rejected and heart broken. Flirt a little and then go away; they love the hunt.
5. Look your best
Appearance is very important to men. Do your best with what you have. Most guys seem to prefer "real" girls before supermodels, natural before super sexy. When looking for a girlfriend guys choose down to earth before plastic.
6. Drink with moderation
Most guys hate it when women are too drunk; they don't think it's classy at all. The same with smoking.
7. Stroll around on your own
Leave your friends for a while when you're out and about. Girls in groups are intimidating and guys want to approach in a safe place.
8. Be mysterious
Almost all guys like the thrill of the chase. Text and call with moderation. Show interest but don´t ask them to marry you on the first date...
Love That Lasts - Notebook
Have you ever wanted to find a love that lasts a lifetime and to be loved no matter what? If so, you may hope it will happen like a lightning strike bringing you instant and eternal love. But enduring love doesn’t usually happen this way. As Allie and Noah reveal in The Notebook, it takes a lot more to stay with a relationship through thick and thin to experience and enjoy a true and lasting love.
Allie and Noah begin their relationship as many couples do, full of passion and feeling for one another. Then, like many couples, they go through a series of challenging trials that force them to discover if what they feel for each other is more than just infatuation. Over time, and after many trials, they learn the skills that help their love to last. Because of this their love even lasts until the end of their lives.
In our modern era when so many relationships end in divorce, heartache, and frustration, is it even possible to find a love like Allie and Noah experience? Is it possible to have a love that not only lasts, but even deepens through time? Fortunately, Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks offer help. Best-selling authors, they have counseled thousands of couples, and have experienced a lasting love themselves. Especially in their book Lasting Love, they provide insights for creating an enduring love by following five key steps.Hendricks’ Tips for Lasting Love
* Become a master of commitment
* Be emotionally transparent
* Avoid blame and criticism
* Value creativity
* Learn the power of appreciation
The Hendricks’ insights begin with the importance of becoming a “master of commitment.” If you truly want something you need to make a commitment for it to happen giving you the will to nurture it in both good times and bad. If you don’t know what you want, or you don’t sustain your commitment, the potential for lasting love is certain to become the pain of lost love. Allie and Noah provide ample evidence of how a true commitment works. Given the misunderstandings, social pressures, personality conflicts, financial and health pressures, their relationship would have broken and never been recovered if they had not had a strong commitment to make it work regardless.
Sadly, many couples do not understand how to make a real commitment. Too often one partner makes a strong commitment and the other does not the Hendricks reveal. Unconscious commitments, where one, or both, parties are more committed to something else, can also interfere. With Allie in the film, her unconscious commitment to please her parents causes her to sacrifice being with the man she really loves. Only as Allie and Noah make a whole-hearted commitment to the relationship can it begin to really work well. Maybe so many people are deeply moved by The Notebook precisely because they hunger for what a healthy commitment can bring them in their lives as well.
The Hendricks’ second insight speaks to your capacity to be emotionally transparent. This requires an ability to understand and communicate what you are feeling honestly and respectfully to your partner. Both Allie and Noah have this skill. They fight frequently, but this ultimately strengthens their relationship because they are challenging each other to be authentic in everything they think, feel, say and do. This honesty creates a level of aliveness that deepens their capacity for intimacy and nourishes the trust and love between them.
The third key insight the Hendricks’ share is the importance of avoiding blame and criticism. In The Notebook there is heartbreak, betrayal and loss opening seemingly justifiable doors for blame and criticism. But while so many movies with similar themes allow their characters to slip into vengeance, bitterness, or cynicism, all the characters in The Notebook portray something much more positive. They own responsibility for their actions and practice empathy for others. Even the character Lon, who has plenty of reason to feel betrayed, avoids blame and criticism - of himself, Allie or Noah - as his own dream of love is crushed.
The fourth Hendricks’ insight is that creativity fuels long lasting relationships. Watched carefully, you will see how important this element is in the film. Noah releases Allie’s creative drive to play the piano, paint, and write the “notebook” itself. And Allie inspires Noah to build. Without creativity relationships become stale and the couple is likely to descend into complaint and despair. Without creativity deep levels of yourself remain unseen and malnourished. By helping each other be creative, couples keep their relationships alive and well.
Finally, the fifth key insight of the Hendricks’ is the value of becoming a master of verbal and non-verbal appreciation. In The Notebook, the words, gestures, and actions of Noah and Allie, especially in their later years, reveal a deep level of tenderness and love between them. Despite the extraordinary challenges they face and overcome, their love endures to the end. They use appreciation to enhance the positive energy in their relationship creating an atmosphere of feeling valued and loved on a daily basis. Using this step, and the other four insights the Hendricks share and the film reveals, you can create a lasting love and finally experience, or maintain, the loving relationship you have been yearning for.
Allie and Noah begin their relationship as many couples do, full of passion and feeling for one another. Then, like many couples, they go through a series of challenging trials that force them to discover if what they feel for each other is more than just infatuation. Over time, and after many trials, they learn the skills that help their love to last. Because of this their love even lasts until the end of their lives.
In our modern era when so many relationships end in divorce, heartache, and frustration, is it even possible to find a love like Allie and Noah experience? Is it possible to have a love that not only lasts, but even deepens through time? Fortunately, Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks offer help. Best-selling authors, they have counseled thousands of couples, and have experienced a lasting love themselves. Especially in their book Lasting Love, they provide insights for creating an enduring love by following five key steps.Hendricks’ Tips for Lasting Love
* Become a master of commitment
* Be emotionally transparent
* Avoid blame and criticism
* Value creativity
* Learn the power of appreciation
The Hendricks’ insights begin with the importance of becoming a “master of commitment.” If you truly want something you need to make a commitment for it to happen giving you the will to nurture it in both good times and bad. If you don’t know what you want, or you don’t sustain your commitment, the potential for lasting love is certain to become the pain of lost love. Allie and Noah provide ample evidence of how a true commitment works. Given the misunderstandings, social pressures, personality conflicts, financial and health pressures, their relationship would have broken and never been recovered if they had not had a strong commitment to make it work regardless.
Sadly, many couples do not understand how to make a real commitment. Too often one partner makes a strong commitment and the other does not the Hendricks reveal. Unconscious commitments, where one, or both, parties are more committed to something else, can also interfere. With Allie in the film, her unconscious commitment to please her parents causes her to sacrifice being with the man she really loves. Only as Allie and Noah make a whole-hearted commitment to the relationship can it begin to really work well. Maybe so many people are deeply moved by The Notebook precisely because they hunger for what a healthy commitment can bring them in their lives as well.
The Hendricks’ second insight speaks to your capacity to be emotionally transparent. This requires an ability to understand and communicate what you are feeling honestly and respectfully to your partner. Both Allie and Noah have this skill. They fight frequently, but this ultimately strengthens their relationship because they are challenging each other to be authentic in everything they think, feel, say and do. This honesty creates a level of aliveness that deepens their capacity for intimacy and nourishes the trust and love between them.
The third key insight the Hendricks’ share is the importance of avoiding blame and criticism. In The Notebook there is heartbreak, betrayal and loss opening seemingly justifiable doors for blame and criticism. But while so many movies with similar themes allow their characters to slip into vengeance, bitterness, or cynicism, all the characters in The Notebook portray something much more positive. They own responsibility for their actions and practice empathy for others. Even the character Lon, who has plenty of reason to feel betrayed, avoids blame and criticism - of himself, Allie or Noah - as his own dream of love is crushed.
The fourth Hendricks’ insight is that creativity fuels long lasting relationships. Watched carefully, you will see how important this element is in the film. Noah releases Allie’s creative drive to play the piano, paint, and write the “notebook” itself. And Allie inspires Noah to build. Without creativity relationships become stale and the couple is likely to descend into complaint and despair. Without creativity deep levels of yourself remain unseen and malnourished. By helping each other be creative, couples keep their relationships alive and well.
Finally, the fifth key insight of the Hendricks’ is the value of becoming a master of verbal and non-verbal appreciation. In The Notebook, the words, gestures, and actions of Noah and Allie, especially in their later years, reveal a deep level of tenderness and love between them. Despite the extraordinary challenges they face and overcome, their love endures to the end. They use appreciation to enhance the positive energy in their relationship creating an atmosphere of feeling valued and loved on a daily basis. Using this step, and the other four insights the Hendricks share and the film reveals, you can create a lasting love and finally experience, or maintain, the loving relationship you have been yearning for.
Tuesday, January 25, 2011
i hate you
How relevant I am in your life?
If you'll weigh things out which is more heavier
Me Or you Friends?
How will you explain the Love without time, its useless.
Dear Timoy,
Congratulations on this amazing achievement. You have proven time and time again what hard work and dedication can produce. I wish you the best of luck and am sure you will continue to do what it is you always have: Put your heart and soul into everything you do.
All My Love,
aryanne (gwpa)
Monday, January 24, 2011
this sucks
The greatest thing to do in a romantic relationship is to care for the other person´s needs ahead of your own. Being selfless is the core of what love is all about. If you're having issues with selfishness you need to deal with them successfully . Why pull another individual into your issues? In the event you really desire to help them, you'll need to put them before yourself. This suggests sacrifice. Selfish individuals aren't prepared to make sacrifices for other people. If you're this way, save the individual you claim to adore the painfulness of finding out
An additional significant factor of love and relationships will be the neglected virtue of commitment. Society tends to make it difficult for a guy and a lady to maintain the dedication of love. Don't forget; love isn't self-centered. Do the right thing.
An additional significant factor of love and relationships will be the neglected virtue of commitment. Society tends to make it difficult for a guy and a lady to maintain the dedication of love. Don't forget; love isn't self-centered. Do the right thing.
Sunday, January 23, 2011
Why is love so compelling and yet often So painful?! Why is it that something as wonderful as LOVE can also bring us to our knees? Falling into love, falling out of love, hurting or being hurt by the people we love, or longing for love – why is it that can love can hurt so much?
I feel both love and anger, the pain of the block or longing the unblocked state I've been experiencing love more easily. And pain frequently,How do you delineate love? I have at time when I pause to reflect and ask myself
" Why are you treating me like this" Do u know about the difference between love and selfish love? I just wanted to hear your explaination. But you acted so mean its like selfish love does the contrary. How can you ever understand me, It was a simple Favor, perhaps you misunderstand it, Well Im sorry of you do.
Loving someone like you was tough, if " akong pang gisalod" the bucket of tears for you it would be so much you can even used it for bathing (:
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